something random read from another place:

“

Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be. Single gives you space to grow. Sometimes, it is harder to grow when you are too close to someone.

Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches and become strong as they mature.

Single means learning to live by yourself. However, that is no more difficult than learning to live with somebody else.

Single means freedom. You are free to spend a week’s vacation on the beach, to take computer courses, to work late on an interesting project, to spend the day in bed with a good book, or simply with a person who has read one.

Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because you want to be with him/her.

Single means that sometimes you will wonder why you will bite your lip and feel wistful and wonder if marriage is better.

Ironically, yet quite happily, single is feeling good about being in control of your life.

It is liking and respecting who you are and why you are.

Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better, it is merely different.

Single means that there could be something wonderful around the corner and you can take advantage of it.

Single means you are free to love again. There are times when we are afraid of telling the person, whom we love or like, what we feel deep inside because we might just lose them.

“

singlehood?

enjoying it when its around and then?
sounds pretty good but said once too often seems like you’re just consoling yourself that you’re on your own. humans are indeed weird creatures arh?
when we are single, we complain we are single and feel that loneliness is especially present in our lives and keep complaining its presence.
when we are attached, we worry that the other party isnt loving us the ‘amount’ they shld be loving us, or worry that something’s gonna happend and wreck havoc to the r/s.

we keep complaing and worrying.

in one way or the other. even if when you keep telling the world and yourself it’s okay and force yourself to think it’s allright but deep in the self, we’d still think otherwise.

hiakhiak.

humans sucks.
totally.

lols.
life is so fucked up.

im suddenly reminded that,
actually there’s nothing as simple as being attached only.
life is confused and messy.

=X

-take a break, cont at home-